Are One Night stands satisfying?

I always knew that one-night stands weren’t for me, so I surprised myself when one day, I decided to test that theory out. I was having a dry spell and missing the physical intimacy you get with someone you find attractive, so I started surfing the online dating platforms when I ran into the man I mentioned in my first post (I could have never been able to do it with a stranger) He was the one who had said he could not feel a connection with someone unless he slept with them. When I found him online, I was thinking that he would be a good candidate for a one-night stand because I did not want something serious and not wanting something serious was his motto. He also had talked a big game about how good he was in bed when we were dating, so I thought he would be a good choice. Suffice it to say; I don’t know how to pick a good candidate for a one-night stand because it did not go well at all, and it was not an experience I would want to try again.

Even though I knew deep down that one-night stands weren’t for me, I am glad I did it because I am no longer curious about it, and I know myself better for it. I need to have a deep connection and know someone well before the physical part of the relationship can take place.

Have you had a one-night stand even though you knew it probably wasn’t your thing? Did it change your mind about them? Did anything unexpected happen?

  One thought on “Are One Night stands satisfying?

  1. April 28, 2020 at 10:03 am

    I have had several some more emotinal than others. often the good once turn to be several nights… which is better as you get to know the person, their body and your form som intimacy

    • May 1, 2020 at 4:58 pm

      Thanks for commenting! I agree. The better you know someone, the better the sex will be in most cases. The guy I had my one night stand with I already knew, and it still wasn’t great. Connecting and how strong that bond is is another factor of how things will turn out in the bedroom.

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