This post is all based on the experience of a male friend of mine. He is someone that has been in my life for a long time, and he can try my patience, but he likes to see the people around him happy and is very supportive. So much so that when I asked him if he had any dating…
The positives of Abstinence during a Pandemic
And on this next episode of Too Hot to Handle……. Oh, I’m sorry. We aren’t actually in an episode of the Netflix program, which centers around ten attractive people stuck in paradise who are not allowed to engage in any type of sexual conduct, including kissing; In an attempt to make them value relationships without sex. Hmmm…isn’t this sounding a…
The secret to being happily single
I have been single most of my adult life, from my previous posts, you can see that I started dating at a later age. I did not have my first kiss until I was 24, so I didn’t learn about the opposite sex until much later in my life. Sometimes I do wish I had someone because my parents have…
To wear or not to wear….sexy underwear
Let me set the scene. You have been dating someone you like for the last few weeks. You have been meeting in public places and getting to know each other, and you are feeling comfortable enough and trust them enough to where you decide that you can set up a date at your house or theirs. You want to spend…
Two things I have learned from online dating
I have been dating online for some time now. The reason I chose this avenue for myself is that I communicate better through writing, and I can warm up to someone before ever meeting them in person. Online works for me because I am more at ease with someone once we talk face to face. I tried a few online…
“Love is Blind”
I am biracial. My mother is African American, and my father is Caucasian, so Interracial Dating to me always seemed natural since my parents never seemed to make it an issue. Growing up, I was attracted to other races. Still, I realized my preference was Caucasian men, and I know that my parents would not have an issue if I…
Do Ex-Cons Make Good Boyfriends?
I do have to confess that out of all the guys that I have spoken to, the one who’s personality that intrigued me the most was a guy who was living in a halfway house when we started exchanging messages. I am sure as some of you read this, you are already thinking to yourselves “RED FLAGS” or “that is…
Are One Night stands satisfying?
I always knew that one-night stands weren’t for me, so I surprised myself when one day, I decided to test that theory out. I was having a dry spell and missing the physical intimacy you get with someone you find attractive, so I started surfing the online dating platforms when I ran into the man I mentioned in my first…
Do Hot Men lower Confidence?
I went out on a date with this younger guy about three years ago. I usually do not like it when men send a message with hi or hello on it, one because it shows that they didn’t put much effort into it and two because most of the conversations that start with one letter words don’t last long in…
Green teeth and Juggalos
All I could think about was, why did I do this to myself? I met this guy earlier on a dating site and agreed to pick him up to go on a date. It has been a few years since this date took place and for the life of me now, I can’t remember why I accepted. He looked decent…